In working exclusively with women clients Authentic T.Y. Hilton Jersey , I have found that many women suffer from a poor self image which often becomes engrained simply through the hurtful words of another. This low level of self esteem can take root in childhood and, if left unexamined and untreated, can last into adulthood, thus becoming a lifelong experience of pain for a woman. This is a prison where far too many women today live out life sentences.
As children at play, a comment such as, 锟統ou锟絩e a cow,锟?can negatively invade the psyche of a child to the point of the child believing, 锟絅obody will ever want me as a friend锟?or 锟絀锟絣l always be fat.锟? These thoughts play over and over again in the mind to the point of possibly becoming an engrained belief.
What a woman believes about herself can have a very real bearing and impact on many areas of her life. Things such as the kind of man she will marry, the type of job she will be able to get, the personalities of her children, where she will be able to live, and the opportunities that will be open to her. The list goes on and on 锟?all because of the input of another.
Do you find this hard to believe? In my coaching groups, some women are damaged to the point that their sole motivation for being a part of coaching is to finally receive some positive reinforcement. Regardless of the nature of coaching or the number of positive comments offered, though, the negative story and belief can trump and triumph.
So how does a woman turn her low level of self esteem and confidence into something more positive and healthy? The answer lies in changing the record - the song inside her mind - her beliefs. Is this easy to do? The answer is that it will take some work on the part of the woman, but when she 锟絚omes out the other side,锟?it will seem like magic!